In 1962, a small group of nationally known matrimonial lawyers met to discuss the need to humanize and dignify the most traumatic area of family relations. As a result, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers was founded to improve the practice of law and the administration of justice in the area of divorce and family law.

The Academy was formed..."To encourage the study, improve the practice, elevate the standards and advance the cause of matrimonial law to the end that the welfare of the family and society be preserved." Today, the Academy is recognized as the pre-eminent family law association in America with more than 1,500 Fellows.  

Fellows of the Academy concentrate their practices in family and matrimonial law, a specialty that involves all aspects of premarital counseling and agreements, legal separation, divorce, annulment, unmarried cohabitation, child custody, property valuation and division, and child and spousal support. Academy Fellows are recognized by their colleagues and by the judges where they practice as leading experts in the field. Each Fellow must demonstrate by personal conduct a professional and ethical commitment to his or her clients and to the betterment of society in resolving what are often intensely emotional and complex family problems. By demonstrating the highest standards of matrimonial practice, Fellows of the Academy have led the way for the remainder of the matrimonial bar and have helped improve the quality of family law practice throughout this country for attorneys and litigants alike.  

Professional fellowship is a key benefit of Academy membership. The national Academy meets twice yearly. Each November at the annual session in Chicago, there are committee meetings, educational programs, elections of officers and board members, and social events. Each March, the Academy holds its midyear meeting at various locations throughout the United States.  

The Academy has achieved national recognition by pioneering in-depth studies of such issues as child custody, taxation, estate planning, property valuation with a degree of sophistication that is seldom available to the occasional family law practitioner. Through in-depth programs, the Academy has developed the most effective procedures for resolving custody, support and enforcement matters. Experts from various fields are frequently called upon as guest speakers and panelists to provide a cross-fertilization of ideas that enhance the expertise and broaden the perspective of the family law practitioner.  

The Academy is particularly proud of its Journal of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers which is published annually in cooperation with the University of Missouri-Kansas City School of Law. Each issue of the Journal concentrates on a single subject such as child custody or retirement benefits.  Each topic is explored in depth by the authors.

This unusual format results in a publication recognized throughout the United States as a source for the most complete coverage of specific topics in family law. The Journal contains both original articles drafted by Academy Fellows and digests of articles on the same subjects from other publications.

The Academy published The Bounds of Advocacy in 1991. This publication presents standards of fair play for laymen and lawyers involved in family law cases. While the standards are aspirational, they epitomize the conduct of Academy Fellows in their individual practices. The Bounds of Advocacy is widely recognized as the first effort by a specialized bar association to establish standards for an entire area of practice. It has been cited nationally in law school ethic courses and legal literature. At least two states have adopted The Bounds as part of their state ethics codes.

A later publication, The Divorce Manual, A Client Handbook, was written for clients contemplating divorce. The handbook provides clients with a realistic overview as to what to expect in the divorce process. The handbook has proven invaluable to attorneys who distribute it to new clients as part of their service.

In 1995, the Academy published a booklet entitled Representing Children, Standards for Attorneys and Guardian-ad-Litem in Custody or Visitation Proceedings. This publication delineates the appropriate procedures to be followed by guardians and attorneys for children in matrimonial actions where the best interests of their wards are in conflict with those of their parents. This fine line of attorney conduct has never been explored as comprehensively as in this Academy publication. It has served as a guide to guardians and attorneys for children throughout the nation.

The Academy developed a Model Relocation Act. As people become more mobile, there are many more cases involving the relocation of custodial parents and proceedings brought by or against the custodial parent to permit or deny such relocation. The Model Act includes stringent notification requirements, outlines the factors, which the court should consider in making its decision, and sets forth alternative "burden of proof" and presumption language for states to consider.

The Academy has launched a national public awareness campaign to counter the profound effects of divorce on our nation's children.

This awareness effort features Public Service Announcements, a free "how-to" booklet - Stepping Back from Anger: Protecting Your Children During Divorce - and an instructional video. All are aimed at parents in the throes of divorce and intended to defend children.

The Academy has also published Making Marriages Last – A Guide to Preventing Divorce . 

As a professional service, the Academy maintains and publishes a list of its certified Fellows to assure the availability of qualified expert matrimonial counsel throughout the United States. This roster of Fellows, updated each year, details the experience and qualifications of each Academy member. It also identifies those Fellows who have been re-certified by the Academy based on their participation in continuing legal education over the preceding five years.  

The Academy's twenty-nine state chapters, representing Fellows throughout the U.S., conduct local and statewide seminars designed to develop a better understanding of family law and matrimonial practice at the local level.

Academy Fellows regularly volunteer their expertise in the family law area for civic, legislative, educational and social groups and for the media. Academy Fellows have been in the forefront in developing and promoting legislation in many states and in Congress, resulting in a revolution in divorce laws in the past twenty years. Often, the Academy offers suggestions about proposed state and federal legislation, which reflects the experience of those who specialize in family law.  

To apply for membership in the Academy, a candidate must first have been admitted to the Bar for at least ten years and have concentrated at least seventy-five percent of his or her practice in matrimonial law. Candidates from states where family law is subject to certification must be certified as specialists.

There are two exceptions to the above requirements: 1) for attorneys who practice in geographical areas where the seventy-five percent of practice is not feasible, a fifty percent concentration in the area is acceptable; 2) for attorneys who devote ninety percent of their practice to matrimonial law, the ten-year practice requirement can be reduced to five years. Each candidate is personally interviewed by an admissions committee after information as the candidate’s experience and ethics is solicited from members of the local Bench and Bar where the candidate practices. Each candidate must have substantial trial experience in matrimonial litigation with consideration given to the ability to achieve settlement without the necessity of trial. Each candidate must pass a written examination covering laws and procedures as they relate to the practice of family law. A candidate must also demonstrate the highest standing in his or her legal community for character and ethics.  

Fellowship in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers represents both recognition of achievements in family law and a commitment to the highest standards of practice in the field.

Those seeking further information about membership may contact the Academy office in Chicago listed below or visit the Academy web site at  http://www.aaml.org